Have you ever just felt like throwing your hands up and saying I just cant do this? Well when we do that we don’t have a clue on who, where, when and how we can fix this. Me personally I think we can fix things by just having faith and  knowing  things will get better. Stressing over things we cant control, things we cant handle, remember god said that things will merge into your life for a reason and the things are there for a reason. It is a lot of adversaries we challenge everyday and the only way we can rise up is to face them with a smile and to know that everything is alright. The movie Lion King said it best “don’t worry be happy” and we should take that in consideration. Life itself can be such a challenge and a lot of us can’t handle what comes with, but if we all sit back and said everything will be okay, have a positive mindset, believe that everything will be alright, breathe, i can assure you that it will be alright. Life is too short to be worried, stressed, depressed, mad always. Try and have a moment of clarity to see the world as for what it is and maybe you will start to see things a bit different. It is not hard to love self first and to know that everything can and will be okay. Sometimes I sit back and think when I was a little boy and the worries were the least on my mind. Life was great, times were great, overall just living. So as adults, why we cant  find that in ourselves to harness those feelings as adults to just enjoy life as we are supposed to. We get what we can handle  nothing more nothing less.

People around the world are changing due to the fact that they just want better. A lot of people are wanting to do things a little different, just because they want to be different. Not like most who don’t mind just settling for whatever or in better words ” following the herd on the day to day grind”.  We run into all sorts of people on the day to day basis and do not have a clue on the next step into our journey. A lot of times we tend to stay on the road more that is the most traveled, but have you ever thought of taking that detour around the corner, up the hill, down that road less traveled? You might be surprised on what you come across, the things you might see, the things you encounter, and you might even encounter people that can change your whole everything, you never know until you make that opposite turn. We all seem to stay the safe way of everything, but sometimes taking a chance can be the ultimate change we need in life, regardless of the outcome, it really don’t hurt to just try.

Sometimes we do get taking advantage of as a person or a human being and our results be as revenge, spiteful, I will show you buddy. But in some cases we look at it as okay my friend, I see what you truly are about. I tend to look at things as if I were on the I don’t care format, and then you realize “Wait why am I going to partake into all of  you all’s things”. I feel the reason we get overlooked on things is because the people that look over us fear we will surpass those said individuals and it i so. A good person told me that those who have looked passed you are the same who looked forward to your help. Food for thought and soup for the soul.

Starting the year off to a good beat is what we all wish to do and we also set these goals a few weeks before the new year. Well if we all sit back and think about it, how many of us actually follow thru what we set oursleves up for in the near future with our new start. Statistics show that few of us honor our new years resolution, and the rest of us fall back into our regular routines, myself included and im not ashamed of admitting it. We set goals of the usual, lose weight, quit smoking, quit drinking, work out more etc. I am sure we all got that someone we know that commit to these things, and how long does it last?     “I WILL WAIT” exactly. I am not judging nor depicting, but I am learning and I figured that if someone wants to make change, why set a date if you really want to make change. I have learned to think about what you want to do, how to set it up and conquer it. We all can do it , it is just up to us if we really want to do it.